tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-609612944219692121.post3267365540136944074..comments2023-05-23T18:19:10.058+07:00Comments on Jonny Foreigner: REVEALED: Where to meet Thai womenJonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12803116544687008923noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-609612944219692121.post-91391721067052827072011-05-12T02:14:04.711+07:002011-05-12T02:14:04.711+07:00There is no magic formula for relationships other ...There is no magic formula for relationships other than how they get along with each other. I can hold a conversation in Thai with anyone, including immigration officials. I could of married a reasonably well-off Thai women, but I would have died of boredom. I have built a great house in Issarn and I also have a house in Krung Thep. I did not care that my wife was poor, and we have 4 children together, and we are still together after 20 years. I do believe that money is very important, and to marry rich has many advantages.Query_89noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-609612944219692121.post-44225224445993630382011-01-13T21:53:45.273+07:002011-01-13T21:53:45.273+07:00Interesting post. I've dated some very intelli...Interesting post. I've dated some very intelligent Asian women. I'm not sure they're for me though - they often have quite complex agendas.DanPhttp://www.asiandatingsitesguide.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-609612944219692121.post-53423999335648119242010-08-08T13:46:50.646+07:002010-08-08T13:46:50.646+07:00Hi Jan,
Thanks for the comment, sorry for my dela...Hi Jan,<br /><br />Thanks for the comment, sorry for my delay in responding.<br /><br />For the post I defined educated as 'university graduated', though I appreciate this isn't a very accurate way of necessarily measuring intellect but certainly a recognised one. <br /><br />This post started as a joke but then I realised it has legs, many problem relationships can be out down to a mismatch. Without overly generalising, women outside of Thailand are more likely to hold mutual interests and be of a similar mindset but I do appreciate this doesn't mean other relationships cannot and do not work.<br /><br />Love is not scientific at the end of the day.Jonhttp://www.jonathan-russell.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-609612944219692121.post-12132826874298299892010-07-25T00:05:39.171+07:002010-07-25T00:05:39.171+07:00i quite agree with your view, however, its not alw...i quite agree with your view, however, its not always the case . i wonder how educated your wife is...... how do you define educated is it a person who have a degree or a person who is intelligent but no formal education ( could be she speak good english) through practice etc <br />anyway just remind you that dont generalise thai women , because we might be thai but we are very uniqe as individual.Jannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-609612944219692121.post-43441164101443125492010-04-07T22:12:05.532+07:002010-04-07T22:12:05.532+07:00what / where is Thai Square in London, is that a n...what / where is Thai Square in London, is that a nickname for somewhere ?Pattaya Girlshttp://pattayagirls.blog.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-609612944219692121.post-2522435065914812412010-04-03T20:07:07.195+07:002010-04-03T20:07:07.195+07:00An interesting post, but things are not always eit...An interesting post, but things are not always either/or, plus/minusAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-609612944219692121.post-43221456426876039192010-04-02T02:05:32.094+07:002010-04-02T02:05:32.094+07:00Jon this is an interesting post. You may have to l...Jon this is an interesting post. You may have to lengthen your comments box if this gets the hits it deserves.<br /><br />To use Talen's brush theme then I think you have probably painted the ideal Thai/Farang relationship. To put it into a UK perspective then the rich English farmer's daughter marries the university educated local vet. An ideal match but the colour of the paint is magnolia. Life is a little more complex than that, its rainbow has many colours.<br /><br />I have often likened the old Pattaya ex pat with the young Thai babe to the wealthy UK builder with a wife half his age. The main attraction to all parties is on one side beauty and the other money. The Pattaya expat is scorned upon whereas the UK builder is admired. I can never figure that one out.<br /><br />If your lady can't speak any of your language then sure you have a big problem but if she can get by with a little lingo then I think it puts a hell of a lot of fun into a relationship.<br /><br />As far as education goes then I really don't think that's a 'major' because if you're in Thailand then she's a lot more educated about the country's ways, means and culture than the falang will ever be. Education to me is not only about qualifications but about being streetwise. I believe a university educated person in more liable to get mugged in a foreign city than a streetwise ghetto kid. The Thai girl is a lot more educated about Thai life than the farang. In London or New York then the opposite is true. <br /><br />How many western men have fallen for the plain looking girl next door rather than the spoilt rich kid. Money and education doesn't always come into it.<br /><br />I think you and your wife have just had a huge slice of luck in finding each other. Others have got to load their dice accordingly.<br /><br />Excellent post and could I recommend a firm that does a first class job on comment box extensions.martynhttp://www.thaisabai.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-609612944219692121.post-67391059330590286402010-03-31T10:20:07.250+07:002010-03-31T10:20:07.250+07:00I agree with your points from the perspective of t...I agree with your points from the perspective of the woman. However, there is one downside! I have two friends who both met and married Thai women in Europe then later decided to move back to Thailand and start-up businesses. In both cases they have now separated. It wasn't the Thai wives who changed - it was the men. The men went from a life where their wives are exotic and different to the norm to a situation where they are surrounded by beautiful women with many opportunities.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-609612944219692121.post-6314600612517267602010-03-31T06:08:19.293+07:002010-03-31T06:08:19.293+07:00Jonny, that really is a pretty broad brush your pa...Jonny, that really is a pretty broad brush your painting with. I do agree that a lot of expats get into trouble with their relationships in Thailand and while it can be the girl in a lot of cases it can also be the expat.<br /><br />There is nothing wrong with meeting and falling for someone who doesn't speak your language. You have a choice to make which most expats ignore....learn her language.<br /><br />Poor or rich I don't think matters...culture on the other hand does and a whole lot of expats and travelers to Thailand ignore that fact when choosing a Thai mate.<br /><br />While most rural Thai's don't have a great education it surely doesn't mean they can't hold an intellectual conversation. The language barrier may belie that fact but I have met more than a few rural Thai women that know whats going on in the world and can give a great conversation.<br /><br />Personally I think women are the same the world around...money, education and traveling experience usually aren't the specific things anyone looks for when entering into a relationship...otherwise we would all end up dating ourselves.Talenhttp://thailandlandofsmiles.comnoreply@blogger.com